Episode Summary

In this episode, I share why my clearest ideas tend to show up around the 35-minute mark of a morning walk. Through a short two-person reflection between Victoria and Anthony, we explore how walking helps release emotional residue, settle the mind, and open space for clarity and direction.

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Show Notes

In this episode, we walk through:

• How emotional “leftovers” show up in the first part of a walk
• Why talking things out helps release tension
• The moment the mind finally settles — usually around 35 minutes
• How movement shifts from processing → presence → purpose
• Why clarity arrives once the noise clears

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Key Themes:

• Emotional regulation through movement
• Mindfulness in motion
• Creative clarity
• Morning routines that restore focus
• Leadership and intentional living

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Favorite Moment

“Right around the 35-minute mark, something shifted. My breath softened, my shoulders dropped, and for the first time that morning, I looked up. Life was happening around me — steady, simple, unbothered — and that’s when clarity finally came.”

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Transcript

Tonia Tyler (00:02)
This story comes from one of my real morning walks, the kind where I step outside carrying a little more on my mind than I’d like to admit. Today, I’m sharing the reflection through the voice of Victoria. She’s the one telling the story, processing her thoughts out loud. Anthony is a friend listening, the steady presence who helps her uncover the lesson hidden inside the walk. And now, here’s how Victoria tells it.

Let me tell you something that happened on my walk this morning. I didn’t start the walk feeling great. I stepped out the door, still carrying little bits of frustration from the weekend, you know, those emotional leftovers that don’t quite leave your system. The ones that hang around even when you think you’re over it? Exactly. Not full on upset, just unsettled. My mind was replaying a conversation with my husband and some things I’d heard on a networking call Friday. And instead of holding it in,

I just started talking out loud while I walked. So the first part of the walk wasn’t peaceful. It was more like a moving processing session. Yes. Raw. Messy. Honest. And here’s the funny thing. I wasn’t trying to solve anything. I wasn’t looking for clarity. I was just walking and letting my thoughts spill out. And then something shifted, didn’t it? Right around the 35 minute mark. Every time. My breath softened. My shoulders dropped.

My mind stopped racing long enough for me to actually look up. The leaves were beautiful. A neighbor was burning his leaves. Someone else was walking their dog. Life was happening around me, steady, simple, unbothered. So it wasn’t the walk that changed. It was you settling into the walk. Exactly. That’s the part I always forget. When I finally settle, my mind clears. And that’s when the ideas start arriving.

Not forced, not pushed, they just show up. What kinds of ideas came through today? Business clarity, direction, a sense of, okay, here’s what matters today. The last 10 to 15 minutes of the walk were completely different from the first. It went from processing to presence to purpose. And I realized that’s why my best ideas come after 35 minutes of walking.

Because motion regulates my emotions first, and once that settles, creativity finally has room to land. I love that. It’s like your walk is doing double duty, clearing your head and preparing you to lead your day with intention. Yes, and that’s what I hope someone else hears in this. Your walk, or whatever your version of movement is, isn’t just exercise. It’s a mental reset, a quiet shift, a way back to yourself.

Your path, your pace, your confidence.

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Reflection Prompt

What emotional or mental leftovers are you carrying into your mornings — and how might movement help you release them?

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By Tonia Tyler | #ConfidentStrides | Sweet N Social